Where did we go wrong?

Overheard while waiting in SWA terminal.

Pre-teen daughter wants a Starbucks.

Mother: “Here you go (hands over credit card) and get me a Tazo tea mocha with soy milk and a shot of vanilla”

Pre-teen: “… blink – blink …”

Daughter stares at mother as though a foreign language was used, eyes slowly glassing over.

Mother” “Here, I’ll text it to you, now get going.”

Where did we go wrong?